VHS movies, flirting on MSN, Getting a video from the rental shop, Internet Explorer fun and all the fun before we became adults.
So yea, I am 23 years old. When did that happen?
Don't you think that being in your 20's is a terribly confusing time? Because, honestly, what are that age norms, expectations? What the 20 should and shouldn't do or be?
Like honestly, I've got friends who own houses, friends renting and friends who still live with their parents and don't do shit with their lives. I've got friends working 3 jobs to maintain a live on some desent level, friends with their own businesses and friends who live from their parents' money and have never worked a day in their live. I've got friends who have graduated from different kind of unis from different parts of the whole world and friends who still have no idea what they are doing with their lives (hi, it's me here). I've got friends who have seen the world and friends who have never left their childhood city.
Some of them are parents, loads of them are engaged or married. Some are even divorced or close to getting a divorce. Yet there are still friends who have never been in a serious relationship or are trying to live their live by partying and trying all sort of new things.
Not a big deal, is it?
I've got friends who have taken their lives away, because of different sort of situations in their live. I've got friends who passed away, not by their choice, and many more have been involved in some kind of accidents. Yet, there are still friends who have never felt grief strangle in their heart.
Because the thing about your 20's it that there is no right or wrong, no better or worse and mostly, no-one is better that anyone else. We are not participating in any race. We all are trying to live our lives, to live the best we can and to reach the end of our path in a best, tho not the quickest, way. And that's ok. There's no need to judge anyone, because we all are doing the best we can. Even if it sucks sometimes, even if it's not easy sometimes...it will be worth it. It will all matter at the end,
I would like to thank Dani C, whose post I found on facebook
and it opened my eyes a bit and let me write this post.
Partly in my own words, partly borrowed few.
and it opened my eyes a bit and let me write this post.
Partly in my own words, partly borrowed few.
